Discord parents and carers guide | Internet Matters (2024)

What is Discord?

Launched in 2015, Discord is a platform for people with similar interests to share and communicate. It is popular among the gaming community as it offers a way for video game players to communicate with each other and develop a community outside of the games themselves.

However, it has grown into a full social network with over 140 million* active monthly users. It is no longer just popular among gamers.

*Source: Business of Apps

How it works

The platform works by using servers. These are set up with a particular focus or theme as a way for people to meet up online to discuss and exchange images, links and information. These servers offer both text channels and voice chat via a microphone on the device you use.

Servers identified by a hashtag (#) are text channels, which are the most popular. Users share messages as well as images and GIFs.

Voice channels have a speaker icon next to them. When users join, they automatically hear ongoing conversations and can join in. Additionally, a chat function like those available in text channels lets users communicate in multiple ways at once.

Users can be invited to servers or find links online to access them. The person who set up the server usually sets some ground rules about who it is for and the expected behaviour. They can also provide strict guidelines for filtering out explicit content and ensuring their moderators’ accounts are secure.

What is Discord Nitro?

Discord Nitro is a premium version of the platform. The subscription lets users customise their profiles, use a different avatar in each server and use custom emojis anywhere. Users also have access to better quality videos, upload sizes and more. Nitro prices vary depending on what you want included and can start at £4.69/month.

What you need to use the platform

  • A computer, tablet or smartphone with internet connection
  • An email address to set up an account

Minimum age requirement

13 years and up unless local legislation mandates an older age. However, Discord “updated its age rating to 17+ at Apple’s request.” Their website states they want to “help ensure minors are not exposed to content inappropriate for them.” But under-17s can still register and use the platform. The Google Play Store has a “Teen” rating.

Because users may share images on text channels or engage in voice chat, young users run the risk of exposure to inappropriate content or language.

Find out more about game age ratings with this guide.

Discord’s privacy and security settings

Discord’s latest Transparency Report reveals that 32.8% of users were subject to harassment on the platform. 11% were victims of cybercrime followed by 8.1% of graphic content, which encompasses content previously marked as “Not Safe for Work” (NSFW).

They have added some safety measures, including:

  • the use of artificial intelligence (AI) to detect abuse, scams and phishing
  • dedicated moderators who help make the platform safe
  • blocking and reporting features

Discord offers the following privacy and security features you can enable:

Filter inappropriate content out of direct messages

Safe Direct Messaging offers a traffic-light colour-coded system to determine whether messages should be checked for inappropriate content. This can be found in the Privacy & Safety menu:

  • Keep me safe
    (Scan direct message from everyone)
  • My friends are nice
    (Scan direct messages from everyone unless they are a friend)
  • Do not scan
    (Direct messages will not be scanned for explicit content)

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Find out more at Discord Parental controls

Report something

If you see anything suspicious or simply want to report a user, you can submit a request.

Block direct messages

You can block direct messages (DM) from other members by individual server. Click on the server’s settings and deselect the ‘Direct Messages’ option:

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Alternatively, go to the account’s Privacy & Safety menu and deselect ‘Allow direct messages from server members’, which can be applied to all servers:

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Choose who can add you as a friend

You can adjust friend request privileges by who can add you as a friend from the Privacy & Safety menu:

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Find out more at Discord Parental controls.

Block users

Simply click on the name of the user you want to block and select ‘block’ at the bottom of the menu.

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Find out more at Discord Parental controls.

What are the benefits of Discord?

It can be a really powerful way for teens to discover other people with similar interests and to build a community. This may be from playing a video game, but it can also be any other interests, such as playing an instrument, liking a favourite artist or reading books from a favourite author.

Take the time to check in with your child to make sure you are across who they chat with. Always encourage them to keep conversations positive and appropriate. It can also give you an opportunity to equip them with the tools to deal with any risky situations that they may face online.

Please note: You can also use certain privacy and security tools on your mobile device or computer to further limit interactions and location-based information. Check out our parental controls for more info.

What to watch out for

The platform is not suitable for very young children

Some Discord servers contain adult content and are labelled as only accessible to those over 18 years old. Anyone that opens the channel sees a warning message that lets them know that it might contain graphic content and asks them to confirm they are over 18. Servers that contain adult material but are not labelled should be reported.

Most conversations are private and allow live video and location tracking (strictly opt-in)

The conversations in Discord are private to the group, so it’s less open and visible than other social networks. Along with this, you can type, talk, listen and watch live videos of other users. There is also a ‘Nearby’ feature that allows you to add friends who have the location features on their device turned on that are physically nearby.

Is Discord safe for your child?

It is a beneficial way to connect with other people if they are the right age and have the proper support and context from parents and carers. Children of all ages are likely to encounter risks on the platform but children under 13 should instead use social apps or platforms that are designed specifically for them like YouTube Kids.

The platform encourages users to donate to others

In addition to the subscription fee for Discord Nitro, users can also spend money on other users. Users can donate to channels they follow or join paid-only servers. Additionally, users who stream on Discord can monetise their videos on services like YouTube. It’s important to discuss money management with your child so they can understand the importance of choosing what’s best to spend their money on.

Latest updates

  • Misinformation and hate speech – Effective 28 March 2022, Discord updated their community guidelines to ban harmful misinformation. In some cases, they may also consider off-platform behaviour. They also updated their hate speech policy to include castes, gender identity, age and serious illness among others. See more about this update here.
  • App Discovery – In November 2021, Discord announced that in 2022, users can explore and discover community-built apps. This only applies to verified apps and refer to bots that users apply to their servers.
  • Stage Channel – Discord released Stage Channels, which are available to community servers. They allow a focussed conversation between select individuals to an audience of listeners. They are useful for interviews, book clubs, karaoke, etc. Almost a million communities have run a Stage since the release in March 2021.
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FAQs

What are the parent concerns of Discord? ›

The safest way to use Discord is to only accept friend requests and participate in private servers with people you already know. Although it's rare, predators have targeted kids by using Discord's public servers to send direct messages (DMs).

Should I let my 12 year old have Discord? ›

No matter the circ*mstance, kids should never give out their accounts or other personal information. Public servers: Talk to your child about the potential risks of joining public servers and encourage them to only join private servers or those created by trusted friends.

What privacy concerns does Discord have? ›

Discord may retain some data even if you delete your Discord account. This may include information required for legal or security purposes, such as IP logs related to potential abuse.

Can school wifi read Discord messages? ›

No, they cannot. All Discord communication is TLS encrypted.

Why don't parents like Discord? ›

Parents need to know that some of the servers on Discord are themed around adult content, with unrestricted access. Here's some more internet slang to add to your glossary: NSFW = 'not safe for work'. In other words 'don't be opening this when your boss is around'... in other words, '100% NOT safe for kids'.

Why is Discord not allowed for kids? ›

Without close adult supervision, Discord can become a dangerous place. Here are a few reasons why: Most Discord servers are private, invite-only spaces with fewer than 10 people. [*] However, child users can receive friend requests from anyone on a shared server and unknowingly accept a request from a bad actor.

What is the 13 rule on Discord? ›

Age requirements and responsibility of parents and legal guardians. By accessing our services, you confirm that you're at least 13 years old and meet the minimum age required by the laws in your country.

Are there predators on Discord? ›

Child predators are using Discord, a popular app among teens, for sextortion and abductions.

Can I monitor my child's Discord? ›

Discord's Family Center allows you to monitor some Discord activity, like how many servers your child has joined, how many direct messages they've sent, and how many voice calls they've participated in. But you can't view their messages, place restrictions, block users, or anything else.

Why avoid Discord? ›

You can use Discord safely, as long as you're careful and avoid common Discord risk factors. Like any social media platform, Discord does require some personal information from its users, and that data could be leaked if Discord suffers a data breach.

Does Discord have inappropriate content? ›

While we may make exceptions for educational or newsworthy content, in general, all sexually explicit content on Discord is considered age-restricted and should only be posted or accessed by users who are 18 years of age or older.

What are the criticism of Discord? ›

Discord has had problems with hostile behavior and abuse within chats, with some communities of chat servers being "raided" (a large number of users joining a server) by other communities. This includes flooding chats with controversial topics related to race, religion, politics, and p*rnography.

Can my parents see my Discord? ›

Parents and guardians will be able to see their connected teen's recent Discord activity through an in-app activity dashboard and weekly email summaries.

How do I make Discord safe for my child? ›

On your teen's Discord app, navigate to “User Settings”. Select “Family Center”. Generate the QR code under the “Connect with Parent tab”. Select “Connect with Teen” and scan the QR code.

Can my school see what I do on Discord? ›

Your school email address will be used to verify which student hub you can access. It will not be visible to other users on Discord, and it will not be shared with your school.

What are the risks of using Discord? ›

Discord users face a variety of threats, from bullying and exposure to explicit content to malware and Discord scams. Because the site allows users to post and message links to other webpages, hackers can easily spread links to servers where malicious software is housed.

What kind of inappropriate content is on Discord? ›

While we may make exceptions for educational or newsworthy content, in general, all sexually explicit content on Discord is considered age-restricted and should only be posted or accessed by users who are 18 years of age or older.

What are the disadvantages of Discord? ›

First, Discord allows users to easily switch between servers, which can lead to distraction or students straying off-topic. This can make it difficult for teachers to keep conversations on track and students focused. Secondly, Discord's moderation tools are not as advanced as other platforms.

What does Discord among family cause? ›

Family discord factors may be a risk factor for major depressive disorder and substance use disorders in offspring of nondepressed parents.

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